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The Gospel Observer

"Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations...teaching them to observe all that I commanded you, and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age" (Matt. 28:19,20).
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February 17, 2013
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Contents:      

1) 1 Timothy 3:3-7 (Tom Edwards)
2) News & Notes
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1 Timothy 3:3-7
by Tom Edwards

As we continue with the qualifications for an elder, 1 Timothy 3:3 shows that he must be "not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, uncontentious, free from the love of money."

That he is "not addicted to wine" is also seen in Titus 1:7.  The phrase "addicted to wine" is from just one Greek word (paroinos), which James Strong defines as "staying near wine, that is, tippling (a toper)...."  Though the dictionary defines "tippling" as primarily "to drink liquor, esp. to excess," it also means "to drink (liquor), esp. repeatedly and in small quantities."  And since Paul's message was said during a time when wines were greatly diluted with about three parts water and, therefore, much less in alcoholic content than the wine of our day, how much more so do elders --  as well as all Christians -- need to be total abstainers in our time?

In addition, the elder is not to be "pugnacious," which is also listed in Titus 1:7.  It is from the Greek word "plektes," which Strong defines as "a smiter, that is, pugnacious (quarrelsome)...."  The English word "pugnacious" is defined as "1. inclined to quarrel or fight readily; quarrelsome; belligerent; combative" (Random House Webster's College Dictionary).  The KJV renders this as "striker," but as James Burton Coffman points out, "The current application of this word to participants in labor disputes should not cloud the meaning here.  Even as late as the times of Sir Walter Scott, a striker was one who went around thumping people on the head with a quarterstaff.  'Skull-breakers' is a synonym."

Rather than being pugnacious, the elder is to be "gentle" (epieikes).  The KJV renders this as "patient"; but the Greek word also means "equitable, fair, mild, gentle" (Thayer).  David Lipscomb refers to this term as indicating, "Not bitter and impatient, but kind in manners even to the froward and unpleasant."  This Greek word is also used in Philippians 4:5 and translated as "moderation" (KJV), "forbearing" (NAS77), and "gentle spirit" (NASB).  Kenneth S. Wuest, in his Word Studies in the Greek New Testament, states that "Lack of this grace was at the bottom of the differences between those two saints, Euodia and Syntyche, who were not on speaking terms."  Developing this virture of gentleness is taught elsewhere in pertaining to every Christian: "to malign no one, to be peaceable, gentle [epieikes], showing every consideration for all men" (Titus 3:2).  And Paul also gives a reason for this in Titus 3:3-7: "For we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another.  But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out upon us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by His grace we would be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life."  In speaking of the wisdom that comes down from above, James, the half-brother of the Lord, speaks of it as being "first pure, then peaceable, GENTLE [epieikes], reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy" (Jms. 3:17).   In Philippians 4:5, it is translated as "forbearing," where Paul instructs to "Let your forbearing spirit be known to all men.  The Lord is near."  We think of "forbear" as to "refrain or abstain from," "to hold back."  But it is also defined as "to be patient or self-controlled when subject to annoyance or provocation" (Random House Webster's College Dictionary).  So, again, being patient or self-controlled is helping us to "hold back" from saying or doing something we shouldn't when we are provoked.  Rather, we maintain a proper disposition and conduct toward others.  Therefore, being gentle, in this sense, is important for every Christian -- and not just the elders.  

The elder is to also be "uncontentious" (NAS77), "not a brawler" (KJV), "peaceable" (NASB), which stems from the Greek word "amachos."  There is some overlapping with this Greek word and the one that "pugnacious" is translated from.  For "amachos" not only means "2) not contentious," but also "3) abstaining from fighting" (Thayer).  So it would seem that "pugnacious" is focusing more on its meaning of one who is given to physical fighting; while "uncontentious" is used to emphasize the verbal fighting one should not engage in -- even though both words could be used to express either meaning.  Some Bible versions translate it as "not quarrelsome" (RSV, NIV, NKJV).  Wuest adds to the definition of "amachos" by saying, it also "describes a person who does not go about with a chip on his shoulder."  Since elders are to work together as one, being contentious (or quarrelsome) would interfere with that.  And, again, we can point out that not only the elders, but every Christian should strive to be uncontentious and peaceable.  For we find this commanded in Titus 3:1,2 (where even the same Greek word is used for it).  

The elder is also to be "free from the love of money."  This entire phrase comes from just one Greek word -- "aphilaguros" -- which Thayer defines as "not loving money" and "not avaricious."  Similarly, every Christian is to be free from this, according to Hebrews 13:5,6: "Make sure that your character is free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He Himself has said, 'I WILL NEVER DESERT YOU, NOR WILL I EVER FORSAKE YOU,' so that we confidently say, 'THE LORD IS MY HELPER, I WILL NOT BE AFRAID. WHAT WILL MAN DO TO ME?'"  One of the words translated as "money" in the New Testament is "argurion."  So now we can divide "aphilaguros" into three parts and easily see its literal meaning: "a/phil/aguros" (not/love/money).   

Paul then gives another qualification for the elder in 1 Timothy 3:4: "He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity."  Some have wrongly understood this to mean that an elder doesn't have to have any children at all; but if he does, THEN they need to be under his control with all dignity.  In Titus 1:6, however, it is also shown that the elder needs to not only have children; but also have "children who believe."  The phrase "keeping his children under control with all dignity" is translated in the KJV as "having his children in subjection with all gravity...."  Some other versions render this as "...keeping his children submissive and respectful in every way" (RSV), "...and see that his children obey him with proper respect" (NIV).  Commenting on this, David Lipscomb writes that the elder "...is to train his children to be grave and sober in manner and to respect him and to honor God."  And if these children are taught to truly believe in God then will they not also honor Him, as part of that faith?

There has been some debate over the term "children."  Does this mean that an elder MUST have a plurality of children who believe?  Would one believing child not be enough?  Some folks see the use of "children" to also include for the man who would have just one child.   For example, E.M. Zerr  writes, "The captain of a sinking ship orders that women with children should enter lifeboats first.  This does not mean that women with only one child would be denied entrance.  Sarah remarked (Gen. 21:7), 'Who would have said unto Abraham, that Sarah should  have given children suck? For I have borne him a son.'"  Sarah never gave birth to more than one child, but she uses the word "children" to refer to him.  Isn't it still a man's household even if he has only one child?  And can't a man prove that he can rule over that household with just one child?  "Thus, the scriptural use of the plural 'children' to include also the meaning of a single child is fully established in the OT.  ...Not the number of the children, but their behavior is in view here..." (James Burton Coffman).  Of course if a congregation had members who would disagree with this, appointing elders from only those with at least two believing children would solve that problem.

Paul then parenthetically explains in 1 Timothy 3:5 why the elder has to have believing children: "(but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?)."  Commenting on this, Don DeWelt writes, "If one be incapable of governing so small a society as his own family, but suffers his children to be disobedient and vicious, how shall he govern in a proper manner that greater and far more important society, the church of God?"

Paul also brings out something else regarding the elder that is not mentioned in the list of qualifications in Titus 1:5-9, and that is what we see in 1 Timothy 3:6: "and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into the condemnation incurred by the devil."  So even if he is an older man, he is not to be one who has just recently been converted.  For if that be the case, Paul shows of the possibility of pride that would cause the elder to fall away from the Lord.  The KJV translates this as: "Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil."  This "fall into the condemnation of the devil" might seem ambiguous.  Does it mean that the devil is the one who is doing the condemning?  The NASB makes this clearer by using the word "incurred" in the phrase "the condemnation incurred by the devil."  For to "incur" means "to bring upon oneself."  Therefore, it is not the devil who will do the condemning.  Rather, this verse is referring to the condemnation that the devil brought upon himself; and from this passage, it appears that "pride" is what became Satan's downfall.  The concept that some people visualize as Satan being the king of hell whom all there must submit to is not founded upon the Scriptures. Rather, hell will be a place of suffering for the devil and his angels, along with all others there (cf. Rev. 20:10).  And when thinking about pride, isn't that involved in about every sin? For when a person sins, is not that person putting his own way above God's -- instead of humbling himself by accepting the way of the Lord?  The Bible clearly shows how detrimental to our faith, and relationship with God, pride can be: From 1 Timothy 6:3-5, it appears that pride can deceive us into thinking we know the right answers, when we really don't.  Pride can blind us toward God. Consider, for example, Hezekiah: "In those days Hezekiah became mortally ill; and he prayed to the LORD, and the LORD spoke to him and gave him a sign.  But Hezekiah gave no return for the benefit he received, because his heart was proud; therefore wrath came on him and on Judah and Jerusalem. However, Hezekiah humbled the pride of his heart, both he and the inhabitants of Jerusalem, so that the wrath of the LORD did not come on them in the days of Hezekiah" (2 Chron. 32:24-26).  The danger of conceit can also be seen in Proverbs 16:18,19: "Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before stumbling.  It is better to be humble in spirit with the lowly Than to divide the spoil with the proud."  "A man's pride will bring him low, But a humble spirit will obtain honor" (Prov. 29:23).  

And, as we saw earlier, the elder needs to not only have a good standing among the Christians, but also among the world in general: "And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil" (1 Tim. 3:7).  The phrase "the church" is in italics, so not in the original; but it is in harmony with the passage and helps us better understand it.  The KJV renders this as "them which are without...."  So that is referring to those without Christ, those without the church -- the non-Christians.  Not only the elder, but every Christian should strive for a good reputation.  Of course, it really isn't our reputation we focus on, but our character.  For your character is what you truly are, while your reputation is how others perceive you.  And we can also say that even developing the right character is not our primary focus.  For our primary focus should simply be to please God -- to put Him above all else.  When one does that, then other things fall into place, such as having the right type of character, having the proper attitudes, having the right conduct, etc.  For in loving God, we humbly submit to Him through His word, whereby He then helps us to develop these needful qualities (cf. Phil. 2:12,13).

Paul shows that the elder needs to be concerned about having a good name "...so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil."  Commenting on this, Zerr states: "Not that the questionable reputation would cause the reproach, but if a man's standing is in doubt, it will indicate that his conduct has not been the best in the eyes of the world.  If that is the case, then he might again be caught in some of his former irregular habits and thus be snared by the devil.  And if such a man had been put into the eldership, it would present an embarrassing and damaging problem for the church."

The need for the elder (as well as all Christians) to be of good reputation can also be inferred from Romans 2:17-24 where Paul speaks of those Jews who "rely upon the Law and boast in God, and know His will and approve the things that are essential"; yet, in their failing to obey those laws, which they had been teaching others to obey, it was not only dishonoring God, but also causing the Gentiles to blaspheme the name of God because of them.  Peter also speaks of a similar thing in 2 Peter 2:1,2: "But false prophets also arose among the people, just as there will also be false teachers among you, who will secretly introduce destructive heresies, even denying the Master who bought them, bringing swift destruction upon themselves. Many will follow their sensuality, and because of them the way of the truth will be maligned."  And as we think about our concern toward our relationship with those outside the church, consider these following verses: "...make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you, so that you will behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need" (1 Thess. 4:11,12). "Give no offense either to Jews or to Greeks or to the church of God; just as I also please all men in all things, not seeking my own profit but the profit of the many, so that they may be saved" (1 Cor. 10:32,33).  In striving to please others, Paul, of course, would never compromise the truth of God's word in order to do so, as he points out in Galatians 1:10.  But he strove to do his best in setting forth that right example before all and practiced what he preached: "Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity.  Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person" (Col. 4:5,6).  

The "snare of the devil" that the elder is to avoid has been referred to as that which would lead to "blasting the character and influence of the minister of the gospel" (Albert Barnes). 

So these are the rest of the qualifications for an elder that are set forth in 1 Timothy 3:1-7.  In our next installment of The Gospel Observer we will begin with the duties and functions of the elders as seen in the Scriptures.  
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News & Notes

Let those of us who are Christians be remembering the following people, and their families, in prayer:

* We extend our condolences to all the family and friends of Barbara Teer (Denise Guillot's mother) who passed away February 21.  There will be a visitation this Monday (Feb. 25) from 6 to 9 PM at the Resthaven Funeral Home, 11817 Jefferson Highway, Baton Rouge, Louisiana.  There will also be a visitation Tuesday (Feb. 26) from 1-2 PM, with the funeral sermon beginning at 2 PM.

* Our sympathies also go out to the family and friends of Dempsey Jones (Ken Robertson's uncle) who recently passed away.  He had been in his mid 80's and was from Jasper, Alabama.

* Let us also continue in prayer for Tom Smitherman (Lee's father) who has been diagnosed with an aggressive prostate cancer.

* Remember, too: Bill Barfield (Linda Blevins' uncle) who had been in the hospital and now a rehab center for a total of about one year; Pam MacDonald who has serious back trouble; Cheryl Crews who has chronic ailments; Shirley Young who suffers from fibromyalgia; Jean Calloway who has health problems and had to recently be back in the hospital for dialysis; and Virginia Fontenot who is a little under the weather.
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The Steps That Lead to Eternal Salvation

1) Hear the gospel, for that is how faith comes (Rom. 10:17;  John 20:30,31).
2) Believe in the deity of Christ (John 8:24; John 3:18).
3) Repent of sins (Luke 13:5; Acts 17:30).
4) Confess faith in Christ (Rom. 10:9,10; Acts 8:36-38).
5) Be baptized in water for the remission of sins (Mark 16:16; Acts 2:38; 22:16; Rom. 6:3,4; Gal. 3:26,27; 1 Pet. 3:21).
6) Continue in the faith; for, if not, salvation can be lost (Heb. 10:36-39; Rev. 2:10; 2 Pet. 2:20-22).
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